00:01 Show Intro
00:20 Cassie Parks Introduction
00:23 Interview with Mel Parrish
00:41 Mel Parrish’s superpower is that she is a risk taker and that is what makes her amazing.
1:27 Mel is a plus size model and blog about body positivity
1:50 Come from a conservative background, so sharing with the larger world in a non-private space was a huge deal
3:18 Manifest $10K junkie - taken the course 3 or 4 times; the last time she had a manifesting win from a booking that had a long time to come through
5:14 There are a lot of people who are worried what other people will think about Law of Attraction
6:58 Manifesting experience - LOA only a few months before I found your book but had been unknowingly been manifesting (career change from Naval Officer to Model) but not conscious before
8:34 Become. Claim that you want.
9:00 Mel is a “how” junkie, loves a strategy, plan, etc but has chosen use the tools Cassie teaches to slow down and let go like scripting, journaling and visualizing
9:49 Day 24 - Go back to this process all the time “howing” vs becoming. “I am going to stay in becoming and not go down in howing.”
10:50 Great modeling job and check was not showing up and in the place of “how” did I create this? Emailed and asked what doing wrong. Followed the process. Celebrated other people.
11:39 How does cheerleading reduce “howing” and increase becoming? Activate that part of you that gathers evidence and allows you to be your future self when you celebrate what others you are achieving
12:20 Prior money story “Hot Mess Train Wreck”
13:09 Once you put your money into a house
13:23 Cleaning up my act with money has been some left brain stuff like learning about money but the other part has been addressing my spiritual needs in a better way
13:45 Money Story Now: Expansion always and always.
14:32 Million Dollar Listing - see what other’s want and get it over and over again
15:04 Tap into other’s confidence
15:38 Seeing things in action allow you try to be that way or something similar too (a different way to learn the lesson)
16:28 Spiritual entertainment - consuming book after book but not putting it into action.
16:59 Understand, believe and go do it
17:21 I did not have the “becoming” beforehand. Took the steps to become
18:02 How do I become? Do things, can’t think it, can’t “how” it
18:50 Becoming has been a discovery process of how much of my future live I already live.
19:10 It is already here which helps you stop reaching
19:25 Nothing repels success like lack and desperation.19:35 It is like when you realize, “I have the enchiladas, I just need the cilantro and sour cream.”
21:11 How does what you know now, how does this help you go into audition|casting? Goodness in showing up but I did it from a place of lack. I now get to be selective and direct bookings
22:25 This is making me happier, saner and a well-cared for person
22:49 This also ties to entrepreneurs - what do you really want and is it worth my time?
23:12 When you shift, space can be created which can feel uncomfortable. But I am scripting ease and spaciousness so that is what it feels like
24:05 How did you learn to fill that time? In some ways I just allow it and do the things I am doing way better and allowing myself to do less
25:16 Workshop I do would not allow if I hadn’t allowed room for that to bubble up, there wasn’t space for it
25:49 Free time - consciously create free space
26:17 Your vibing up activity might include watching a episode of friends and it might be 5 minutes
27:17 You can’t add more stuff into your life if it is already full.
28:30 Favorite thing about Manifest 10K? Love the structure and framework to fall back on but that allowed me to stop being so reliant on structures and frameworks.
29:09 Reword: Knowing there a step-by-step process for manifesting and welcoming money and becoming the person you want to be more of makes it easier to let go of all those other structures you think you have to use to get to where you want to be
29:37 Any lane is open for you.
29:44 Advice? Be open to all the crazy ways what you want will show up
30:18 Find me at Instagram @MelParrishPlus and her blog http://melparrish.com
31:50 Show close