Ep: #249: How to Manifest If You Don't Know What You Want

Do you feel like you have no idea what you want?

So, manifesting feels hard because you're supposed to be clear about what you want?

It's okay. You're not alone. And you can still become a fantastic manifester if you have no idea what you want. 

Join your host Cassie Parks, as she is joined by Sonja, who had no idea what she wanted. In fact, she is still allowing that to unfold.

AND she's manifested some amazing things along the path to discovering what she wants. 

1:30: What's awesome:

• Sonja shares that she has decided her next step is to become a Virtual Assistant.

2:50: Sonja discusses that she understands now that she would never have figured out what she wanted on her own because she was going about it the wrong way.

3:06: Sonja shares that she is starting to figure out what she wants by letting go, trusting the process, doing the work, and focusing on what makes her happy.

4:00: Cassie asks how or what have you had to let go of in 2020?

• Sonja shares a story about letting go and how that led her to get the perfect job, and how it could only unfold because she felt the feelings and let go.

5:57: Cassie asks what does it mean to trust the process, and how do you do that?

• Sonja discusses that first, you have to show up and do the work. She shares why doing the work will put you on the path and how trusting doesn't mean much if you are not on the path to what you want.
• 6:45: Next, Sonja talks about how living this way is the exact opposite of how most people live, and how it is different then she used to live.
• 7:40: Then, Sonja shares that trusting the process means doing the work, not giving up on yourself, and always choosing to move forward.

8:03: Cassie adds that it's trusting the process, but also trusting that as you move forward, you have made the right decisions in the past.

8:25: Sonja shifts the conversation to how connecting to her Future Self for the first time has changed everything for her and how her first Future Self Workshop allowed her to see what was possible.

9:52: Cassie asks Sonja to clarify why, in the past, she felt like she was trying to fake it till she made it when it came to getting clarity on what she wanted.

• Sonja discusses how, when she's completely honest, she wouldn't even allow herself to own what she wanted because it felt fake and unattainable.

11:15: Cassie adds a little about the magic of scripting and then asks Sonja what has happened when she has allowed herself to step in and open up.

11:50: Sonja tells a story about how she trusted the process, and it lined up perfectly for her to do Cassie's money manifesting workshop as she was starting Manifest 10K, and shares what has opened up from that experience.

12:25: Cassie talks about the shift that happens when we are no longer desperate for money. 

12:51: Sonja shares how owning the fact that she wanted to move out and really thinking about what that would look like has opened her up in ways she wasn't expecting.

13:29: Sonja shares how she now sees why her life is the way it is.

13:40: Sonja explains how the process of stopping thoughts has changed for her in the last 18 months.

14:10: Cassie highlights that Sonja no longer has to analyze everything and just gets to choose when she wants to let go.

• 14:17: Sonja shares that not analyzing has been an enormous shift in 2020 and what that has looked like for her.

14:50: Cassie explains that doing the work is more than just doing the assignments; it's deciding to do things differently.

15:15: Sonja explains how doing the work has opened her up to what she is thinking and has taught her how to change her thoughts in a way that feels good to her.

16:12: Sonja shares that she has been reminiscing over what has happened in the last 5 years and can't believe the thoughts she used to have.

16:38: Sonja shares that she cannot believe the level of positivity she is capable of.

16:55: Cassie asks if Sonja used to think or feel that she was a negative person.

• 17:05: Sonja admits that she felt that everyone felt and thought the same way and that she wouldn't have considered herself optimistic.
• 17:47: Sonja shares that she used to feel that super positive people were from another planet and didn't understand them, and now she is becoming that person.

18:10: Cassie asks Sonja about what makes her happy and finding her purpose or path.

• Sonja admits that she felt like she was the only person who couldn't find what made her happy and felt like she had to have the accomplishments to be happy.
• She has realized that she has to stop that and focus on what makes her happy and she found that she didn't even know what made her happy.

20:03: Cassie asks Sonja about not forcing what she wanted to do with her life, and Sonja shares that a big shift came from realizing she doesn't have to have the rest of her life planned out. 

21:00: Cassie asks Sonja if there are any LOA myths that she would like to dispel?

• Sonja shares that LOA is more than just thinking about something, and it happens.

21:55: Cassie asks Sonja what are a few things that she has learned about what LOA actually is?

• Sonja explains that it is:

1. All about knowing what it will feel like to have what you want even when you don't.
2. Finding ways to feel that way even when you don't.
3. Feeling all of the feelings without judgment. 

24:40: Sonja explains that to make the Law of Attraction work, you must be completely honest with yourself first.

25:05: Cassie asks Sonja, on the scale from best to worst, what kind of year was 2020?

• Sonja shares that 2020 has been the best year of her life!    

25:50: Sonja talks about how this year has been amazing because of the work she has been doing.

27:40: Cassie asks Sonja if there are any final things she would like to add?

• Sonja talks about how whatever you want is possible.

28:01: Sonja shares her manifesting total of $81,647.45 in 18 months and admits that when she started, she was the person who didn't think she could manifest $20. She adds that anyone can do it if they are willing to show up and do the work no matter what comes up!

Be sure to tune in next week as Sonja turns the tables on Cassie and asks her some questions about the Law of Attraction!